Every day we make decisions, make mistakes, achieve success, plan something, give up something. Each of our steps is based on something - on intuition, on the opinions of others, on our own experience. There are decisions and actions that bring results, and there are erroneous actions. And there are those things that we never decided on during our lives.

Life is one, there will be no second chance to repeat its plot, so you should not waste it on doing useless things, unloved work, bad people and lie to yourself. Later comes regret that we didn’t have time for something, we didn’t dare to do something, we didn’t do something. Isn't it time to start making decisions that come from the heart? Here is a list of things that you may regret very much someday.

• You will regret that did not healthy lifestyle life and allowed their weaknesses and habits to destroy their organism and destroy themselves.
• You will regret that did not live one day did not enjoy every minute of their existence. Instead, you were chasing your illusory future, or remaining thoughts in the past.

• You will regret that little contact and time spent with their family who quarreled with them a lot and were offended by them. You will especially regret that you rarely, and perhaps never, said words of love to them and how you appreciate them.

• You will regret that little traveled and did not know the world around them.
• You will regret that feared a lot.
• You will regret that lived with an eye on public opinion and worry about what other people think of you.
• You will regret that didn't do something crazy that was once feared.

• You will regret that underestimated themselves and doubted themselves and their abilities.
• You will regret what you were obsessed with material things. You have spent a lot of energy and health on acquiring material values.
• You will regret that very spent a lot of time watching TV or in in social networks. Virtual life has given you nothing.
• You will regret that few and bad friends and did not appreciate people who wished you well.

• You will regret that did not say the most important words important people in your life.
• You will regret that the things you need most and the realization of your desires kept putting it off until later.
• You will regret that continued relations that should have been completed a long time ago.
• You will regret that spent their entire lives working at a job they didn't like, and not realizing their talents and not fulfilling their dreams.
• You will deeply regret that did not develop their talents and abilities given to you from birth. You will also regret that you had to bury your childhood and youthful dreams.

• You will regret that don't help other people and were focused only on themselves.
• You will regret that keep chasing people with which you are not on the way.
• You will regret that didn't risk at the most crucial moment.

Soul Binding 04.11.2017

Dear readers, probably, all of us sometimes thought that it was already too late for something in life. So you can’t buy a house by the sea, as you once dreamed of, don’t give birth to another child, don’t travel around the world with only a backpack on your shoulders. And sometimes we experience similar feelings in relation to something vital, it seems to us that it’s too late to change something in marital status, at work, late to move, late to start thinking about health ...

But is it really all that hopeless? Is it really too late to live? Or has life in store for us opportunities for such a case? This is what we will talk about today in the rubric. Its host Elena Khutornaya, writer, blogger, author of intuitive maps, and I give Lena the floor.

Greetings, dear readers of Irina's blog.

We all catch ourselves from time to time feeling that it is too late to change something in life. So, it’s too late to realize your dreams and desires - you wanted something, and now that’s it, the train has left, maybe only in the next life ...

Not too pleasant experiences - probably everyone will agree with me on this. There is something so hopeless in them, a feeling of some kind of deceit, as if life promised something, teased, but did not fulfill the promises, took away hope. How about without hope? Without it, everything always becomes so gray and dull ... And even if there are other joys in life, but at the same time something important is missing, we will always be haunted by a feeling of dissatisfaction that refutes all claims that we came into this world in order to be happy.

Why do we decide it's too late to live

But is it a matter of life for a deceiver? Or is it time to look inside again? After all, no matter how disappointed we may feel, life is really such that if desires are given to us, then opportunities are attached to them to realize these desires. So why does it sometimes begin to seem to us that it is too late to dream of some of them being fulfilled?

And the reasons may be different.

Age

Realizing our age, we increasingly begin to tell ourselves that it’s too late for love, too late to change jobs, too late to learn new things, too late to change attitudes towards something or someone, too late to forgive. The time is up, and it remains to be content with what we have.

Circumstances

They are such that we cannot influence them, and even if we can influence them, we are afraid of the consequences of this and prefer to leave everything as it is.

Lack of Opportunities

It can be about anything - finance, time, support. They don't exist, and they have nowhere to come from, and we decide that this will forever prevent us from getting what we want.

The most interesting thing is that all these reasons have one thing in common.

In fact, all the obstacles to our desires are in our head.

All the obstacles that we see in front of us are only our own limitations, unbelief and lack of true desire. All real desires are necessarily fulfilled, and neither age, nor circumstances, nor lack of opportunities can interfere with this.

Real life examples

I think everyone can remember moments from own life when it seemed to us that the best thing that could happen in life had already happened, so there was no longer any need to wait for more. And it didn't depend on age or circumstances, did it?

I myself have experienced this situation several times. In my twenties, I decided that all the best holidays in my life were behind me, and nothing like this would ever happen again.

At thirty, I was sure that it was too late for me to dream of love - there was only a boring, dull life ahead, and all that remained was to come to terms with it. You will laugh, but I really thought that I was already too old for such experiences, and mainly physically. Now, nine years later, it’s funny to myself, but then, in all seriousness, it seemed to me that youth was gone forever, and it definitely wasn’t funny.

Of course, I was wrong. And the holidays in my life were still wonderful, and I found my love, and it turned out that it was not too late to live and love.

And you yourself will probably remember a lot of examples from your life and from the life of relatives and friends, when at some point we decided that it was already useless to dream and desire something, but then suddenly there were opportunities to get what we wanted in the most unexpected way, bypassing everyone obstacles we have seen along the way. And this only confirms once again that everything that happens in life does not depend on external circumstances and parameters, but only on our internal state.

Don't let yourself dream

Some might say that there is big difference between what happens to us at thirty and, for example, at sixty. But for the most part, this is an illusion. Even at twenty we can be sure that everything is over for us and it is already too late to live, while for others, on the contrary, life is just beginning at fifty. We at any age can justify the hopelessness of our situation by the lack of opportunities or the circumstances in which we find ourselves. But in the end, everything depends only on our own perception and attitude to life.

The real reason for our inability to get what we want is always the same - lack of energy to believe and achieve. If this energy and desire is there, then do not interfere with yourself - it means that it is not too late for anything. Do not invent obstacles for yourself that do not really exist.

No matter what anyone says, no matter how contrary to what we ourselves used to believe, the main thing that matters is our willingness to dream and make our dreams come true.

How to start living again

So it's never too late to start living. Check your desires for truth, fill up with energy, follow yourself, look for ways to get what you want. Be realistic, but know how to dream, and every wish will surely come true.

Don't worry about how it will happen, don't try to foresee everything. But be sure that life will find a suitable answer to any of our requests, if only we are open, sincere, and bright in our souls. Let's trust life - and it will do everything for us.

Even if you do not have enough energy to believe in your dreams, at least lie in their direction.

Have a dream? Run to her! Does not work? Go to her! Does not work? Crawl to her! Can not? Lie down and lie in the direction of the dream!

For such cases, there good way tune in correctly: if you can’t openly and freely desire something, well, you don’t believe that it can come true, but at the same time this dream entails anyway, think about what you would like to want this. It may sound strange, but it works great.

Well, I can’t dream that I will still visit Rio de Janeiro, but how great it would be if I could believe that this would still happen!

And remember - everything that needs to be done will definitely happen. What doesn't happen, it doesn't need to. It's never too late, because that's what we're here for - to live. And while we're here, there's always more to be done.

Warmly
Khutornaya Elena

I thank Lena for such a good, inspiring topic. Indeed, even if at some point in life there is no strength left to believe that we are still capable of something, we must always remember that such a state is temporary. And that if we want, we open up, then strength and desire will come again, and the belief that many more good things will happen to us. Because it's true, it's never too late to live, and it all depends on us - whether we will breathe deeply or just eke out an existence. I am sure that you and I, my dear ones, will make the right choice.

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Some cases from one's life or told by casual acquaintances make one think, and sometimes even change one's way of life.

Here is one of those stories that really impressed me.

A roommate in the hospital where my sister was lying was a woman 50-55 years old. I don’t remember her name - let’s call her Natalya. Woman with strong character, holding a leadership position in television. Natalia was scheduled for surgery. The day before the operation, she told such a story from her rather eventful life, -

“I went to the hospital for the first time with peritonitis when I was 16 years old. I was still in my last grade. The operation was difficult - barely saved. When I fell asleep after anesthesia, I saw myself in some huge room, almost like a stadium, with subdued lights. There was a long table in front of me, like those tables that professors occupy when they take state exams. Around the table sat several figures in gray robes with hoods covering their faces. And they start discussing me, i.e. not me, but my life, and telling each other such details that no one could know about, weighing the good and bad that I managed to do by my age. As a result, they came to the conclusion: "She is still young, she has not had time to sin in a serious way. Let her return. We will observe."

I woke up, but I didn’t really think about this “dream”: you never know what consciousness will give out under anesthesia. In addition, she was an active Komsomol member and did not believe in any other world.

The second time I was admitted to the hospital when I was 30 years old (I don’t remember what diagnosis Natalya had - I won’t specify, but again I fell under the surgeon’s knife). And again I fall asleep under the influence of anesthesia and meet my old acquaintances in hoods. By that time, I had already occupied a managerial position, I was distinguished, as I recall now, by a rather tough character and adherence to principles. So let's “wash my bones”: there she treated someone unfairly, insulted mortally for nothing, there, again, unfairly dismissed people without trial, without even listening to their explanations; caused suffering to many with its rigidity. And tears from insults inflicted for nothing are already a sin in the soul. A lot of other nasty things from my actions were listed, for which I was so ashamed and so wanted to fix everything! Finally they gave out: "Okay, it's still early for her. Let her come back and correct her mistakes. Let's see what she's capable of." I took this dream very seriously. I remembered almost every word of these "Jesuits". Honestly, I was shocked that they remembered the dismissals of people - after all, I acted strictly in accordance with the form, fired and only for "punctures". It would seem to be fair. It turns out that my actions brought suffering to people, which means that minuses in my karma multiplied. It was necessary to look for other approaches to such issues at work. In general, I became softer, tried to listen and hear people. It somehow became easier for me when I got rid of my adherence to principles both at home and at work. As soon as, under the influence of some reasons, she felt strong anger, ready to pour out on the head of a person who happened to be next to her, she immediately remembered her judges and extinguished her aggression.

For the third time I am waiting for the operation, and with it - a meeting with my old friends. What are they going to tell me now?

My sister was discharged just on the day when Natalya was operated on. She really wanted to talk to her and find out about the details of the third meeting. Apparently, Natalia justified the expectations of the "judging staff", because. the operation was successful, the sister saw her before leaving the hospital - Natalia was brought to the ward, she had not yet recovered from anesthesia and was talking in a delirium. Apparently, she said goodbye to her otherworldly acquaintances until the next meeting ...